Thanks for the tip, that is useful. I been playing nearly 6 game hrs so far and only lvl 2. lol. Is that normal, or do i just svck?? Well i like to explore, took me quite a while to explore whiterun.
There is no standard (leave your mmo mentality behind you for this game) at which to set your character against. Ive played a character for over 20 hours at level 1....some people try to do the main quest and as much sidequests they can at level 1 (some restrictions apply in some cases). You honestly cannot svck at this game in any way, the only standard you set is against your self and how you enjoy the game. No need to 'grind' (unless you are hitting max level and need that last few perk ups so badly you can taste it), no need to try and aim for god hood (though you can its your game but not a necessity to enjoy it)....just, play. Explore what you want, when you want, just know your own limitations and make a plan if you die the first time. There is no penalty for dieing, its the best learning experience you can get.
You are worrying too much over this game, you have a clear grasp on your character, and you are still at a low level with much to explore and learn. You WON'T screw up don't sweat it. And let's just say you are unhappy with how your character turned out (for whatever reason, it happens ALOT with our first playthrough on a new TES game) start another, and experiment.....or experiment with a character on the side... even if you are satisfied with your first character, I can almost guarantee you will be making another, and perhaps another, and another......
Im not sure what 'guide' your using but they sound a bit redundant for a game such as Skyrim.....sure there are some quests that you may need help with, but I find the wiki's much more beneficial and they contain more information most times (even more then the Prima guide).