I've completed the amulet of Mara quests, completed the letter quest associated w/ her.. When I talk to her she flirts w me etc, but I never get any dialog options.. Anybody have any ideas? I'm playing of a ps3 so no option for console codes otherwise I'd marry some big briasted woman from one of the pubs haha

You need to finish the golden claw quest for her brother first.

I've completed that one too..

Perhaps she is a lisbian?

To do The Book of Love you must've spoken to Dinya Balu, but have you spoken to Maramal? You can't marry someone without having asked him about how marriage ceremonies are conducted first.

Ahhh ok, I'll give that a try!! Thanks for the help!

Im married to her - keep in mind she will forever great you with "its great to have the claw back where it belongs" - otherwise she's fine

Oh and her suiters will continue to visit your house after you marry as well.... "you want to speak to ME after what you did!!"