I married Jenassa, the dunmer hanging out in Whiterun. This was only possible after hiring her, so that I did.
Anyway, she accidentaly got killed in a dungeon (friendly fire I suppose). For some reason I didn't load an old save file, but instead brought up the console and made a "ressurect 1" on her. Sure enough, she is alive and continues following me.

The problem is that she is no longer my wife, only a follower/hireling. I tried to do the whole quest reset thing for remarriage, but it won't work. I belive it is because I'm required to hire her, and because I've already done that in her past life I can't do it again (not even if I dismiss her).

Is there some sort of quest reset for hiring her, or some other way I can remarry her?