Well, I married Ysolde, and I don't own a home. I chose her because she had a home already and I figured it was free storage. She left the chapel in Riften before I could speak with her. Now, I can't find her. I hadn't even got the chance to speak with her so I could let her know we'd be living at her house. I looked all over Whiterun and can't find her. I actually broke into her house and used the wait feature many times but she never appeared. She also never appeared at the traders area in Whiterun. I am afraid to start using her house as storage until I'm certain we live there. I hadn't thought of going back to Riften to check the town and the chapel again. I guess I'll do that when I play again. I was just wondering if anyone else had this problem or knows what to do. THANKS

Go back to the church and if she's not there try waiting 24hours.

Check her house in a couple of days. It will take her time to get there because she has to walk there from Riften. I had the same problem when I married the Jarl of Whiterun.

Thanks guys! I was like, damn! Married 30 seconds and she runs away!

She was back in the Riften chapel, but I found her! thanks