I think your being too many things at once. Like for example, my first character ever made was a dark elf mage, who was not only great in destruction, but in conjuration, one handd, and sneak, and somewhat archery. And let me tell you, it got really boring. This was due to the fact that I was basically a mage, a thief like character, and a warrior at the same time, being able to join the college, the DB, the guild, and the companions.
If you really like the battle mage like characters, stick to the skills of destruction and one handed mainly, with alteration as a backup. Or conjuration if you wish. Just don't include sneak. Sneak in this game overall can be a power house