But can someone help me with the presets? The customization is driving me crazy. I usually do frontal and side profile to fix my character. My issue with Skyrim's faces is that if you look at the profile sometimes I feel like they have to smashed in profiles. To smooshed and squished of a profile. How can I make their profile less smashed?

only the nose and brow, otherwise you're stuck with the general Shape of the face like in Fallout 3. :/

You should hear him rage to me, it's actually pretty damn funny.

Not everyone's face is so bashed in Bethseda. Mine certainly isn't. People have more prominent bone structure. Only the elves have not smooshed in faces.