My new girlie was disappearing on me, although she was there when I would first enter the game. I plunked her down in Rorikstead with a default sandbox at editor location package. She would be there when I first entered the game, but then after I left the cell (FT or on foot) and travelled around, when I came back she would have disappeared. Now that I've moved her to her permanent location in the cell where I've built her house and have given her a new package that I've made specifically for her she is always there. I don't know if the package I've made specifically for her is what's got her staying put now or not...
Well, all three of the packages on my guy are custom made. Two of them sandbox, and one patrol. He is along no patrol points, or in either sandbox area. I may delete all but one of his packages and reduce his AI down to the basics until I can get him to show up...