This person is on Xbox, she said so.
Now the simplest solution is to think of a name prior to making your character. Tamriel Rebuilt is a mod for Morrowind, but it comes with a utillity for making NPC names; I often use it for making my character's names: http://tamriel-rebuilt.org/?p=modding_data/ngen
WARNING: Seemingly random outburst ahead.
As far as Oblivion VS Skyrim goes, it's a bit complicated but Skyrim's looks a ton better. Obviously, technology had its toll on that but...not as much as you'd think. Look at an Oblivion face and then a Fallout 3 face. What's the difference? One offers thousands of customization options, but no matter what you do it is hideous. The other always looks nice, but short from the facial hair, head hair, and eyes it will look the same as anyone else (maybe a little different). Skyrim took the same approach as Fallout 3. With today's technology, and even the technology in the far future, you will never see a facegen that looks as good as Skyrim, and has as much customization as Oblivion. It's just not graphically possible yet.
That being said, I do miss the RGB color option. Why was it removed? If I had to guess, in Oblivion you could make your character blue skinned (through glitches I believe; unless it was a mod) and have green hair. I'd guess Skyrim didn't want that kind of image anymore. They wanted a serious, this is a realistic medieval game, look so they just through out the options to make your hair whatever color you want. I don't have a huge issue with it, but I do miss it a little.
As far as "mods doing everything", c'mon...Sure mods are great. Sure, to me, they're the best part of a game but theres no way the developers of Skyrim could fit in one hairstyle for every person in the world. It's nice to have some customization, but imagine if you had to go through 9823 hair styles. You could just select a random one, but the people who want strong customization would go through each one and write down the numbers of the ones they like. After 20 or so hours, they MIGHT pick one to use. I'm a huge fan of customization in a video game, but asking for a billion types of hair styles just ain't cool. I don't have a single problem with Skyrim's customization. Mods even make it possible to change the facemaps for different races which alters how they look extremely. And if your on a console, you can't really complain about lack of customization. You choose to play on the console; I'm not saying that's better or worse, but console gaming does not offer mods or as much settings options. If you really care about customizing your game, pick it up for the PC. If you want to just play the game normally relaxing on a sofa far away, pick a console. You cannot have the same customization on a console as you do on a PC. It just doesn't work. At the same time, everyone on the PC that doesn't have a god-pc will experiance more crashes and lagg than on a console.
My point in that is if you choose to play on a console, you can't complain about lack of customization. That's PC territory. Just like you can't complain about crashes if you choose to play on the PC (although the consoles did have that infamous water bug :'( ).
This time, pick a name, make sure your look is final, and then continue on. I have my doubts you could mess up again
