» Sun Jul 15, 2012 8:15 am
I always start with exploring the world; that's what the game aims for after all. Visiting towns and cities, checking out rumours and news facts about the world by talking to npcs, taking on interesting quests (small or big, doesn't matter), checking out the wilds while traveling to a quest destination, visiting tombs or caves I encounter along the way, ... That's how I tackle it anyway. I was level 30-ish before I finally visited Mount Hrothgar. I decided to check out all cities and towns, and their corresponding holds, before actually starting the main quest. I haven't taken sides in the civil war yet because while the ideals of the Stormcloaks overlap my character's, I don't really like Ulfric, and the ideals of the Imperial Legion are completely the opposite of my character's.
Just a head's up on that:
1) I'm the type who almost never fast travels (so I can enjoy the random encounters and check out places while on route),
2) I heavily roleplay with my character,
3) some other quests can bug out on you if you just randomly clear places and loot things, because they accidentally also take place on that same spot (e.g. you clear out a fort, and later you take on a "Kill the bandit leader" quest at that same fort. You'll have to wait for 30 in-game days for that fort to reset, unless the place bugs out too and it won't reset anymore. At all.). On that matter, I just thought "[censored] you" at the game and did whatever I wanted, bugs or no bugs. But I'm playing on the computer, so I've got a means to solve most bugs too.
4) Make sure you don't only level non-combat skills, certainly at the beginning. Enemies level with you, so if you only level for example smithing, enchanting or Alchemy, you'll become everyone's biatch. Sometimes it's better to run away from a fight, but always running away will render you quite a weak character. So don't forget about One-handed and/or other offensive skills. Best advice is to start at Riverwood, check out the surroundings, take up some sidequests there, and you'll be good. Don't rush with the main quest, even though all the npcs tell you there's no time to waste (that counts for all the quests really, except for the Companions' radiant quest "Rescue Mission") - they'll wait for you for all eternity anyway. Alduin won't decide to pay you a little visit if you solved every single npc's mundane problem, but didn't even go up the big mountain. He's a chill dragon like that.
5) Be careful not to overdo your leveling either. The game will eventually get way too boring that way. Do it steadily. Also, don't try to go for the most powerful weapons and armor - take those which suit you best. As an example, I'm level 52 and still using the standard Scaled armor instead of Dragonscale. Also, either go for heavy armor, which is stronger but slower and requires more stamina, and thus mainly suited to tank characters, or for light armor, which is meant for fast and sneaky characters.
Alas, the sidequests (which is actually what you asked for lol):
- Mages: College of Winterhold (although you can easily finish it as a warrior too. The game mechanics are bad like that)
- Thieves: Thieves' Guild at Riften
- Warriors: The Companions at Whiterun. There's a twist to it 'though, which can be quite annoying if you don't agree with it. Not agreeing equals not being able to finish the whole questline after all.
- Assassins: Dark Brotherhood via sidequest at either Windhelm (listen to rumours) or Riften (act like a 'righteous' assassin). There's also a small sidequest to destroy this guild, but you'll have to do the little sidequest at Windhelm or Riften first, and during the 'initiation' you'll have to make the decision to do the hidden option. Think it through. It's the only chance you'll get to destroy the guild. (Destroying it isn't worth much 'though, very small quest, little reward compared to joining it, and this guild has one of the best storylines in the game. Destroying it is mostly aimed at the roleplaying bunch who play with 'good' characters (which my character is part of ^^))
- Stormcloaks vs. Imperial Legion: The Imperials are best compared with the Ancient Romans and their empire, while the Stormcloaks are similar to the Germanics. Pick a side which your character (or you if you're not really into RP'ing) suits best. Check the uncountable "Stormcloaks vs. Imperials" (and similarly "Uflric vs.Tullius") threads on the forum to know more about their ideals, background info, etc. Or simply visit the UESP page (skip the quests part) about the http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Imperial_Legion and the http://www.uesp.net/wiki/Skyrim:Stormcloaks if you don't want to read too much. After joining, you get a last chance to change sides during the "Jagged Crown" quest. I also heard the Stormcloaks only use light armor, while the Imperials also got some heavy armor. Might be interesting to know.
(TL;DR:) I don't think there's more to know really. Just discover the world at your own pace, don't rush through the main quest too much, and be careful with leveling and completing quests.
Ah, and most important: make MULTIPLE SAVES! One before you start (a part of) a quest, one or several during the quest, one right before the end of the quest, and one after you completed the quest bug-free. Bugs are a major attribute of the TES games after all ... You'll need to reload when it happens.