hey heres a question i have some side quest and items in my menu and you all no it wont let you drop the item ok so what do you do if the person who you are doing the side quest for dies??? I have these things to give away but the person is dead what do i do??? Also how do i get the quest off my menu?? I am on a xbox so i have no idea how to delete these quest... Now i just turn the toggle off but they still are adding up quickly..

The person your doing the quest for died? If that's the case it will take a reload to fix that one, as for quests and quest items stuck in your inventory there isn't anyway for a console player to get rid of them. I have a couple items and quests that are stuck in my quest log and inventory and the only way to loose them is through console command which is a PC only feature.
Fear not though, quest items say they have weight but they really don't so they wont put you over weight. Stuck quests though you just gotta role with it and never put them as active.