and was presented with the choice of a loaded steak and cheese or chicken parm grinder which would they choose

And grinder that's what we call them here in the commonwealth. You may call them something else in the rest of the wasteland.

No I am not incredibly bored at work trying to decide what to get to eat when I leave.

I don't eat grinders. I eat hoagies.

And I'd choose the chicken parm because for whatever reason, nobody outside a 50 mile radius of Philly can make a proper cheese steak. It ain't hard.

I mean I've never had one from Philly but we get some pretty good ones around Boston.

What the non-yankee hell is a grinder?

neither...I'd go to Subway and get a chicken bacon ranch on flatbread..toasted

Ditto...No idea what a Grinder shop is Perhaps have something to do with grinding herbs for meat rubs, I dunno