Sorry about my edits, I am using my phone to comment.
I sink an unhealthy amount of time into games and yes I started with Fallout 3 (sorry?) and I'm not trying to forgive this game. The only thing I was trying to convey was saluaging the experience.
I have a mixed relationship with RPGs (i was WoW for nearly a year, not counting the numerous console games I've played) and I would generalize by differentiating the market of "casual gamers" with PC platformers (the wealth of GECK alone is mindboggling) that console games have a smaller vision for it's players. I'm not demonizing anyone, but I am very guilty for playing too much, and I'm confident I'm not a casual gamer (see Kinect games, wii, etc) but I've alwas been a gamer. I'm 37, owned many generations of systems (com 64, intellivision, sega, atari 2600, game cube, wii ps1, ps2, he'll even a ds!) and I can definitely chime about that market (the new xbl is already a slow moving side step instead of taking advantage of the opportunity to further tweak and add more features).
What I was suggesting in regards to gameplay/playthroughs was more intended as a current strategy instead of a sentencing plea.
Just to add a note about oblivion, I tried it right after Fallout 3 and I found it unplayable from the beginning (SLOW Framerate and a little too quiet).
I do admire games like Amnesia (just got the demo for Mac) where the Dev team took a 50% pay cut to stay in delopment.
I think were on the same team but many people just want to feel vindicated at this point for all the games faults. I think it would be fair if Beth offered some kind of freebie for all of for all of our QA beta testing.
One thought I've always had about Fo3 and NV is the inconstancies are much like real life where things don't always work out, thus why it's so addictive to play through again and again (something we can never do in real life).
Well, unlike the forum members I feel your post was aimed mainly at, I am not here to complain about a broken product, moreso that I demand it to be fixed.
I can handle a restart if I am confident that the present issue is fixed. The bizarre thing to me was that you were suggesting a restart when there is no suggestion that the bug is/will be fixed and no bankable cause that we can ensure we avoid on the new playthrough.
With the above in mind, the game simply is not salvageable.
Bethesda does what no game developer does, and that is it develops/produces excellent open worlds from a detailed first person perspective. Your advice would seem to be more appropriate for a linear shooter, not for a game that constantly tempts us to wander off the beaten track.
I really do suggets you give Oblivion another go, you will level up and get tougher, the pace will pick up and you will simply adore the huge world. Seriously, dude, if you're a bigger old timer than me (I am 30), then I would assume you'd relish that such a dynamic world is there to immerse yourself in. Such a welcome change to the linear romps that most games still offer.
Oh, and might I add, Two Worlds II is out soon, looks fantastic. I have ordered a Euro version so maybe we can all do the same and enjoy it whilst Obs/Beth gets their act together.