Yo i sided with the stromcloaks and now i cnt get the house in riften, i have all the other houses and i want this one, can any1 help? i play skyrim on ps3

Do you have a save prior to joining them? If not you're SoL

Have you helped the Jarl and helped the citizens of Riften

Stormcloak victory shouldn't make a difference, as the Jarl is a supporter anyway. If you side with Imperials, you can get the house but no Housecarl as you may not become Thane. Have you done everything else, helping the people of the rift and

If you have visited a certain cave before you were pointed towards it, you are also SoL.