To start, I know this forum has rules about these things, so suffice to say I was under the infuence (still am, a little) during this whole thing. That said, I just had the single most awkward experience in my life. Hence, why I'm turning to the internet. I'm at my friends house ( and my best friend, who happens to be a girl, is dating her brother) to hang out with her, and afforementioned best friend. Planning on watching movie, realize I forgot it downstairs, go downstairs to get it, and I'm pretty sure I just saw her naked. That's twice. Within a week. On St. Paddies, I did that, too. Though I was too drunk to actually remember it, that time.

Anyway, point is;

I have no idea what the hell I'm doing. That's kind of creepy. I know it's cheesey, but I'm worried that someone will think I'm " 'accidentally' walking in on them *wink, wink, nudge, nudge* " and it'll ruin things. So, forum, do I bring it up and apologize for having the worst timing in the history of Mankind, or try and just bury it?

Yeah, apologize, in fact you shouldn't even have to ask if you should, it should have been your immediate reaction.

Immediate reaction was more; "Just pretend you didn't notice, get the bloody movie, and don't look back". Like I said, I was less than sober (not trying to hide behind it like an excuse; I'm just trying to explain the situation), and I'm not even sure if I saw what I think I saw.

For all you know, she may have seen you naked!

Meh just forget about it, it was an accident. I reckon it would just lead to more awkwardness if you were to try explaining to her that you have been seeing her naked.

If she didn't see you then I wouldn't bring it up, but i\f you think the incident will bother her or she brings it up then you certainly should apologize.

I wish it were that easy; the first time her boyfriend (who knew I was blackout drunk, and wouldn't remember) just kind of turned me around, and set me on my way. Lo and behold, didn't remember. This time though, I know I heard him say something like; " *Groan* What's he doing here?" so they knew I was there, that time. To be fair though, it's not like I could really avoid them. I walked through the door, and it was the first thing you see.

So she knows, I just don't know if it'd be worse to straighten it out, or let it go.

In the case you describe here I'd just let it go. If they were doing it in the living room or another regular room with other people in the house then they shouldn't expect a great deal of privacy. Now if you walked into their bedroom to get the movie that would be a different story.


If they bring it up I might say something like "Sorry, I was just up grabbing a movie. Take it into the bed next time."

See, it just keeps getting more bloody complicated. Her brother sleeps in the basemant, and his room is RIGHT beside the couch and T.V. Logically, where movies and things are kept. To make things worse, he has a freakin' window for a door. Not literally, mind you, but it's closer to a sliding door, than an actual door. Plus, she was in the process of closing the door when I came down.

Anybody feel like trading their last four hours with me?

You have really interesting nights....


Anyway, I don't see where you did anything wrong, and I wouldn't over think this too much. It was an honest mistake and it isn't something that she should be overly upset about in my opinion. If she doesn't seem to care about the situation then you could let it go or you could just casually tell her you're sorry for walking in at the wrong time like that.

As long as you don't start making this a weekly adventure then I think you and her will be fine.

Tell me about it - but cheers, man. I really appreciate it - put my mind at ease. I think I'll wait and see how things go before making a big deal out of it. I mean, she might as well be a man, for how our relationship works. If it's really weird between us, then we can do the hear-to-heart thing.

Thanks, everyone. I really apprecaite the opinions.

"Sorry about walking in on you earlier, I was after a movie and didn't know you two were getting into it"

Hold up. Let us go back to the whole she is dating her brother thing...Am I misconstruing that? Or do you mean your at a friends house and your other best friend is dating this friends brother?

I am way to tired to think straight(54 hours no sleep...YAY!) so I will just say it boldly. Is incist going on?

Same here. I was also confused with the wording...

Friend A has brother
Friend B is dating Friend A's brother

Make sense?

There's no reason to apologise. It'll make you seem defensive. Just tell your friend to be more careful about where and when she decides to take her clothes off. It's what a good friend would do.

Does she have a nice body? Just tell her she's got it going on.

That's horrible advice he would be betraying his friend making a pass at her.
Personally I think nudity is no big deal, if she had a problem with you seeing her naked she would of probably punched you. If she wasn't aware you seen I'd keep it to myself to avoid getting punched.

i wouldn't have said anything unless someone brings it up later.

Because real life is an anime. She'd only punch him if she were an idiot. After all, it's her fault for taking her clothes off in places she can reasonably expect other people to be.

Indeed.

the girl is dating her brother?

I don't want to come off as a chauvinist so I am not going to discuss women and reason as finding that pair is rather rare in my experience. Women tend to punch where I am from sometimes they do it in a good way sometimes they don't mean it in a good way I'm not going to pretend that I know how they work in any way whatsoever. The only thing I know is, one will most likely want to punch me after reading this post.

The OP has two different friends: his friend (who is a girl) whose house he is in right now, and his best friend (also a girl) who is dating the brother of his friend and who he saw naked.

Sorry, no incist in the OP.

Anyway, I agree with the general concensus that coming clean about seeing her naked and apologizing for walking in on them (even if it was an accident).

Maybe also throw in a free PSA of how door locks work

Did I read your OP correctly in that the girl is dating her brother? I'd be more concerned about that more than seeing her nekkid as HTML were.