Wasn't quite that simple. Japan had been waging war across eastern Asia and the pacific for many years before they started rumbling with America, and then there were plenty of battles before the bombings. You also need to consider what the alternative to the atomic bombing was. A land invasion would have caused an unprecedented amount of casualties due to how Japanese society had been conditioned. Defeated soldiers and even civilians on Japanese controlled islands killed themselves rather than letting themselves get captured by the Americans. The Soviets would inevitably join in on invading the Japanese mainland, and the aftermath of that would also be catastrophic for Japan's future. You'd end up with another north/south division.
Land invasion. Military casualties are preferable to civilians being made test subjects for the governments new toy.
Suicide > death from radiation burns and necrosis
People may try and defend dropping the bombs. But I cant agree with it at all.
Civil, yes, but in their minds they were still "orientals" and therefore inherently untrustworthy, just in a slightly more civil manner than others in the region. Also, Britain owed a lot of debt to the US after World War I, and keeping on their good side was a way of possibly being able to negotiate a better deal later on.
(And there was no chance in any way of Britain voluntarily allying with the Soviet Union - they only did in World War II because Hitler invaded the latter after the former was already in the war - and Germany wasn't considered all that trustworthy either, and too much of a threat to British interests. Not that staying in an alliance with Japan would have made the Soviet Union any happier, quite the opposite in fact once said country decided to look at Manchuria again in the late 1930s, and I don't think Germany would have cared either way if Britain was in an alliance with Japan or not.)
Didnt the UK help with their Navy somehow, to help secure China or something ?
They trusted them enough, to make them stronger.
They may not trust eachother, but its better to atleast try and be closer, to minimize the chances of them [censored] eachother up.
Didnt Nazi Germany want the UK to join them ? If the UK was allied with Japan, that would make things smoother.