Wait... You use the D-pad to select your weapons/spells from the favorites' menu?
I just use L1 and R1.
You can assign the left (1.) and right (2.)dpad keys to two of your favorite items/spells, and they will come up automatically when you press them instead of going into your favorites and choosing them.
And it has worked for me so far UNLESS I change something after I have chosen it. For example, I have #2 as my nightinggale blade, and my shield of YsGammor in my left hand. But if I change anything, then the next time I hit the #2 pad, it will be messed up. I hope that makes sense.