anyway, the game ran fine at first, but as i started building the house in the pale, expanding it and everything, the map of skyrim started getting less and less detailed, looking kinda odd... and even some of the loading screen models would appear in low-quality, like the argonian barkeep cleaning a mug, his head was low-quality, but the rest was fine... it looked creepy, but then the rest of his model became low-quality, too, before the loading screen finished.
i also noticed as i travel around, the textures will appear low-quality and suddenly 'pop' into the normal quality im used to... its got me worried.
i think i might just reload and not bother building any of the houses, i'll just keep my family in proudspire manor in solitude.