Vampires are fully capable when fed to think and reason that makes them more than predators, they are still people and as such are a race, like with any race there are good and evil people..the evil vampires who get corrupted by their power are the ones that kill when feeding and the good ones (most of them or well the clan affiliated Vampires) feed and move on without killing.
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Do some studying of the animal kingdom. -All- the big carnivorous predators are towards the top of the intelligence scale where they operate; this only makes them more dangerous. And the most dangerous predator known is man. The thinking beast. Now throw a =need= to take the fresh blood from another living thing.....and despite recent rewriting of lore, a human vampire can only feed on other humans. Blood of their blood.
As to the 'race' issue...... Can they reproduce themselves? No. They -can- kill a meal and make the remains an undead bloodsvcker like they are, but they can not reproduce. Ergo they are not, and never can be a 'race' (add to the fact that they can turn Mer and beastfolk as well.....kind of ruins the idea of a homogeneous race, ne?).
Though you could as I said before blame the Vampire Hunters for causing some vampires to kill when feeding, when they are chased off at every chance they go insane from starvation and can't be held accountable for what they do which may be considered desperation induced evil.
And why would said Vampire Hunters be chasing said vampires, hmmmmm? For fun? Vampires are stonger and faster than humans. Hunting one is like hunting a predator with the mind of a man, the potential knowledge of a near immortal, and strength and speed that make a jaguar look like a broken-legged calico kitten. You don't go near them unless you are nuts, or have a very good reason to.
Romanticize the curse all you want, but it is a curse; you have a simple choice. Take from another human being, or dry up to the point where you -can't- move, and can only lay there until you go nuts or someone puts you out of your misery. And how long can you take from another before that other become less than you....just a bloodbag. Not a thing with feelings, life, things that matter. Just a sack to sate your hunger (and the 'drink and move on without killing' isn't a sign of goodness. It is the act of a predator that doesn't want to stir up the herd. Plains cats do this with gazelle herds; prowl the very edge, and take the yearlings who don't know better than to go a wandering).