Strongest-Hes so strong and has mastered the voice to such a degree he can speak freely without shaking the mountain/world. Also Ulfrik says he is the strongest when asked about the Greybeard's in dialog.
Weakest&wisest-He is the weakest of the four Greybeard's because he is the one of the four that is the mentor because when he speaks it doesn't disrupt the mountain. Also when the Dragonborn talks with him about learning dragonrend and references the blades is possible through the dialog siding with the blades that he will refuse to help you, furthermore after he denies the dragonborn assistance in learning dragonrend master Einarth approaches Arngeir and "Reminds" him of his duty as a Greybeard. Now take that for what it is, but to me it sounds like Einarth, the stronger Greybeard, in essence punked Arngier and made him help the Dragonborn, Its unclear what Einarth said to Arngeir because it was all in draconic language.
So whats everyone else's thoughts?