There is a way to get your followers to level with you on consoles. Look up Wabbajack.
For Dead thralls, Bandit Chiefs make a good choice for melee. Although, Conjurers are good because they summon, too! My favorite DT is Ulfrics right hand guy. Galmor Stone-Fist or something like that. He doesn't moan! And he still uses his NPC lines in combat.
Edit: also remember to smith-up your follower's or DT's armor!