But the atmosphere is all wrong! With the assassins of the Cheydinhal Sanctuary, I actually felt a connection to them. They actually felt like family. Those in Falkreath just feel like co-workers or business partners. I never engaged in dialogue with most of them except for when they were essential to the Emperor Assassination plot, and I don't recall ever actually speaking to Vazeera.
When I had to kill the Cheydinhal assassins, it really hurt me. There are a bunch of PC mods that revolve around saving their hides. When the Falkreath Sanctuary was burned to the ground, and only Nazir and Babette survived, I didn't really feel any loss of the others.
Lucien Lachance, being the Speaker for the Dark Brotherhood and the first member of the faction that I actually met, made it fun to be a cold-blooded killer. He made me want to join the Dark Brotherhood. The only reason I spared Cicero's life in Skyrim is because he told me that "our dread father does not wish this." His devotion and loyalty to Sithis - even in death - reminded me of the fun I had with Oblivion's Dark Brotherhood.
In Cheydinhal, I still chose to wear the Shrouded Armor and Shrouded Hood on my assassination missions, even though their armor rating and enchantments were sub-par, because I felt like this was an actual family that I was a part of. Here, I only wear the shrouded gloves, and I only wear it, not because I love the faction, but for their backstabbing bonus.
Now, the Thieves Guild in Skyrim... I actually feel a connection to! In Oblivion, the Thieves Guild only served as a means of selling my stolen items. Of course, that need can be eliminated with a skill perk, but I still choose to join the Guild, not simply for the services rendered, but because these guys feel like family to me, like they'll actually watch my back. In Cyrodiil, there was no actual sense of companionship.
I really hope that the Sixth game in the series manages to bring back the feel of Deark BROTHERhood that was in Oblivion. Keep the gameplay improvements, oh sure, but I also want to feel like I belong.