I tryed to get somone else to follow me but they all say there is already somone following me but I can't find them. Be nice if they place a marker for them or a respwan for them when ever u sleep in your house. Anyone know how to fix this.

Have you tried waiting? i agree with having a follower marker, same for horse's also.

waiting 24hrs sleeping 24hrs going to where i hired her. Can't find her anywhere. Next fix should have a respawn for the follower when u sleep in the house.