So, like the title implies, I can't get married in my game. I don't know if it's a bug or not though. I have the amulet of mara, and have gone to several npc's that are confirmed to be available for marriage, but while wearing the amulet, no options pop up. I have already bought a house in Whiterun, and Lydia is my housecarl. The odd thing is that when i tell her to leave my party, she just goes back to my house. (Don't know if that has to do with anything.) So yes, wearing the amulet, no options. I'm pretty far in, so i won't be restarting if it's a bug, but still would like an answer to this.

I am led to believe that it is a quest to get married? I may be wrong

It might be a bug. You sure you went to riften and have the necklace? All I had to do was talk to someone and ask if she liked me.

I bought the necklace in Riften, and talked to the guy about getting married. Other then that, nothing is happening.

Yeah, Its either a bug or your asking the wrong people. Its not worth starting over though, marriage isn't all that from my experience.

Yeah, i'm not gonna start over. Good to know that it might be a bug though.

I got married just fine, to a nord woman in whiterun, as a male khajiit.

The option came up after I helped her with a quest.

Can get married ?