Can a khaajit marry lydia?
I'm asking because i did all the quest for the church in riften i even got the dialog asking about marriage.
But now i get no option to marry lydia even if i ask lydia herself.

A Khajiit would have more sense !

Yes, there are no racial restrictions. Make sure you're wearing the amulet of Mara when you talk to Lydia.

One of my two Khajiit characters married Lydia.........she put a big sandbox in the upstairs small bedroom and would only scratch my ears when I came home....most disappointing female.

then i really got to marry lydia lol
since i named my khaajit kittykat.