To answer your rhetorical question, some people like to receive advice . There's no foolish question, just foolish people. What were you thinking when you made that negative statement towards the OP?
Though in the midst of it all, I do like the information you provided in the bottom paragraph.

I don't mean to be negative towards the OP specifically, I just see a certain mentality with some people on this forum, that they
can't get past a class system, and they
can't break themselves of "mage", "warrior", "thief" classes, and I just don't get it, because that's exactly why I love Elder Scrolls so much, because I'm not restricted to an arbitrary "class" system, I just get to create the character that I want to play, and if that includes combining magic and combat, magic and stealth, combat and stealth, or anything in between, that's what I get to do. I'm not stuck with deciding between a Warrior or a Mage, I get to play
both. I get to combine my dual wielding, heavy armored warrior with the skills of a Necromancer. Or I can give my Necromancer a bow and arrow and let him take out enemies from the shadows while wearing Light Armor. I don't have to just put my Necromancer in robes and let him use only magic. (I use the Necromancer example a lot because Necromancers are my favorite fantasy RPG class)
I can make a Paladin that doesn't stick to just blunt weapons, but can also pick up a 2 handed battleaxe to smite my foes with. I can be a "tank" that doesn't have to go "sword and board", but instead I can dual wield 2 swords and play an offensive tank of sorts.
The fact that I can build my character entirely as I see fit, without having to worry about arbitrary class restrictions, or what Aragorn was in the Lord of the Rings books, but rather the character can be whatever I want my own fantasy character to be, with any combination of skills that I deem fit, is the ultimate draw to Elder Scrolls for me, and I just don't
understand how people would just pass that up and build their characters back into a box by worrying about if a warrior can use a bow or not. If you wanna do it, then do it! Make your own character, make your own way!
I don't intend to be negative towards anyone, I just don't "get it"