Ok, time for solution

First problem was reaching her without being killed by her fire (two shots of it, and I was dead). I'm still a lvl 15, playing on Expert, not so many spells available and very vulnerable. I used Muffle to move silently and one invisible potion. With those two I almost reached her without being seen. As soon as she saw me, I run behind her tent, and kept in the opposite side of the tent, until my status went back to "hidden". Once hidden I sneaked behind her and tried pickpocketing without chance, therefore I attacked her with a knife. I noticed that two shots with the knife left her a bit confused, leaving me time to repair again behind the tent. Rinse and repeat, I brought her HP to very low, and at that point she started to flee away. Her pattern was to run in the opposite direction as me, stop, turn towards me, receive my next knife in the face, turn again and run. In this way I literally
drove her in the place behind the bridge, where I knew there was a magic rune trap. Minutes later -bang- she felt in the trap and the Nettlebane was in my hand.
Was pretty difficult, but fun