I'm pretty sure you need a collision box and a name on your item, search for the coffin thread I made a week ago or so.
I knew about the name.
I guessed at the collision box when the effect nif wasn't clickable in game.
Then I looked at the invisible activator which does have collision - says so right in the name... lol
The effect nif has no collision.
Which brings me back to my original thought...
I must be doing something wrong.
I cannot seem to get the bhk to parent to the nitrishape.
It seems I can only attach to a new parent ninode.
And the new ninode won't parent to the bsfadenode.