I believe that I said once that if I started another thread like this I should be shot, buuut....

In short, there's a girl that I've semi- been after for a little over a year now and for that time she's pretty much stiffed me/ brushed me off despite promising me some of her free time (up until a month ago I worked near where she works at, now I work in another area of Wichita). About three months ago I asked her how she felt about me and she replied, "You're a good friend, but for right now I'm only interested in girls." So I thought, that's that, we're still friends and I tried to bury my interest in her and quit hitting on her like I usually did.

Now three weeks ago (at this time I hadn't seen her for a few weeks) I get a text from her (after seven months of our phones not connecting at all) and during a nearly five hour conversation, she most definitely expresses interest in me, and wanting to know how deep my interest in her is. Talking to her face-to-face is different too, she smiles at me in a way she never did before and gives me a hug goodbye that's different from other hugs that we've shared before (friends hug, y'know).

I think we've had one or two texting conversations every day this week that have went in ways that I really wouldn't have expected.

I could write out a long, detailed piece about her, her work-moms (who try to control her life and don't want us together), and our history (we've been friends close to three years), but I won't bore you. Basically, I truly want to believe her, but saying she's ONLY interested in girls kinda contradicts saying that she's been interested in me since she realised that I was interested in her (and claims that she knew it before I even said anything). She still does admit to having interest in girls, but not as much interest as she's showing me.... Then also, when I asked about when she could give some of her free time, it was " idk :/ ".

She knows that I don't know what I'm doing at all, but has been the instigator by asking questions that I wasn't expecting from her, and liking my trying to set a romance novel-like scene in one text. *cough* Maybe I shouldn't say that....

Anyways, I'm just rambling 'cause I don't really have anyone else to talk to about this. To a degree I don't even care if you try to humiliate me. Myself, I'm hoping for the best.

Thank you and have a good life.

GIMME A J. GIMME AN A. GIMME AN H. GIMME AN O. WHAT DOES THAT SPELL? JAHO! WOOOOOOOO! *Waves pompoms and does a kick making skirt lift showing balls*

Seriously though, it seems pretty clear she's either leading you on or she's into you dude, just ask her out on a date and see what happens. After all, the worst she could do is say 'no'. You said so yourself, she's expressing interest in you more than other girls, go for it man. You must fight to win her love or you will fall into the shadow of The Friendzone.

lol Yea, I haven't tried asking her out for.... a long time, and had thought that I need to try again a few days ago.... then forgot as I had other things that required my attention.

Seriously, however we communicate next time I will be asking her. Thanks for the reminder.