I somewhat agree that the writing is lukewarm compared to previous instalments of the series, but I don't see the dialogue wheel as an issue. It is not that I am in denial, I just feel it is not important at all.
Then again I have been playing these games for 20 years. I have played Age of Decadence, and Pillars of Eternity recently, and there was so much dialogue that I just ended up playing it like a slot machine. Like so:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTtc0aH27lk
Just clicking away, skimming through dialogue as quickly as possible once the build to bypass the checks was known. I played Fallout 3 exactly the same.
I am a firm believer that stories are merely backdrops to video games. A game can quite happily exist without a story, but it can't ever exist without its gameplay.
Stories in games are of little relevance to me after so many years, and hence what a very vocal minority perceive as important is a non-issue. But hey, it is the internet after all, all it takes is constant reinforcements by a select few for plagues to spread very quickly.