If you find yourself constantly get frustrated by lvl 40, maybe its time to invest in Enchanting? You don't have to be massively OP; some warriors builds shine with Enchanting and enhance your ability as well as fun-factor; instead of getting one-shot by random draugr.
The fact is that i killed over 1600 enemies with one handed and two handed weapons(100 in both abilities), and now in lvl 40 is very hard to start improve other skills!!
Plus I need too much time for this ability....and the way for improve it looks boring....
Then, I costantly use a Sword in one hand and a restoration power in the other hand....
Another problem is that i hate using forge and I cant have powerful weapons cause ive just 36 on it....