So i was walking around, nearly got murdered, and noticed that my follower wasnt there, so i looked on the map expecting something like Fallouts companion tracker where it shows them on the map.
not there,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
anyone help me find her?

Do a quest where she was replaced by someone else? Had a companions quest replace her and send her back to whiterun. have also heard that you can loose them if you get too far away but mine have always come back even when i jump off some strang ledge and land 50 feet below them :/

fast travel somewhere and if shes not with you go to dragons reach and she will most likely be hanging around there eating or something

Oh no, i found her, i told her to wait as i raided a bandit place.
thanks anyway