So, looking through UESP, I think I've narrowed my selection down to two choices: marrying Uthgerd, or marrying Muiri. The reason I'm posting this here is that I'd like to convert my wife to a vampire and have them logically play along with it (even if they're not outright "evil," but morally indifferent). Those are the only two wives I know of (besides your standard Aela borefests) who have killed in some way, shape, or form and might logically accept this gift.

My problem is, have I overlooked something? Which of these two (or others) should I choose? I hate using followers, so this person would be more of a housewife, and since I have Hearthfire, I'm also wondering who would have dialogue when adopting children.

But yeah -- who would make the best vampire wife mother and why?