Disable visual themes in the compatibility tab for the TESV.exe.
Also, if you're getting a BSoD, then your issues aren't dealing with loading a lot of programs. You've either got a driver issue, DirectX issue, hardware failure, or something of that nature.
Just doing the visual themes on TESV.exe seemed to fix the issues.
The BSod is none of those issues, I have media files on my computer from Hi Def commercials and movie (I'm a media animator) that if I try to launch on anythingthing other then a 128gig render box, will send my computer (Core i7, 16gigs Ram, 1gig 560 nvidia) straight into a fatal hardware crash.
Last crash all 7 cores where 100% and Ram usage was 100%, my drives meter was going balistic, and my 560 shut down (over heated by to many grafics programs opened) switched to a 7800 onboard GPU, I had Maya, 3dStudio max, and 1/2 my adobe production suite open and attempting to load files, 6 browsers open (all locked up and not functioning), Steam attempting to install games and launch them. The screen flashed blue real quick with text, then the entire PC shut down. I'm not a software expert, but I did get certified on PC hardware, if too many programs are open hardware becomes taxed and can fail when working past its limits.
I couldn't read the text, it flashed too quick to tell what exactly caused the crash. But with so many systems maxed out and my GPU card arleady shut down, I can take my pick.
Although, I can say the a simular crash can occure when to many games are luanched and running at the same time (Got the same crash on a PC with a quad q6600, 4 gigs ram, and a 9800GT running 7-10 windows of Aion running (It was during an event to keep some guildies logged into the game).