There must be some major bug or they are really bad at higher levels but I never had any troubles with the vampire attacks and as of yet haven't been attacked in cities since finishing that quest. Also I've seen the mysterious traveler and if I didn't bother him he didn't bother me he just wandered around at night never killing anyone. I'm thinking the players that have the most troubles their characters are at a higher level. I lost maybe 4 villagers in the whole campaign and none of them were shop keepers or quest givers so maybe it's just bugged really bad for some people or really unlucky