So I went home and my thane/house carl told me that there was something funny going on in the basemant, as most of you know the basemant is infested with skeevers, I kill the ones that attack me, but then there is one off in the forge area, I sheath my sword and walk over and find that he is friendly. so now I have a basemant skeever. hope my kids don't kill it!
and I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else ever found this, for I would asume that most people playing skyrim would swing their sword first and ask questions later, especially with a critter know to be hostile.