I only ever pre order for the "speicial" or "limited" editions, and that's only if they have good stuff. I do mostly pick up straight from the store, unless I'm busy that weekend then I'll just purchase online and wait.
Same. There are a few exceptions when I'll pre-order a game, and that's mainly for the special editions/Collector's Edition version. Though I'm not too fond of Fallout: New Vegas, I would pre-order the CE again because there were some great items in it. The only game I regret... "wasting" money on is the CE of Star Wars: The Old Republic. Resident Evil 5 is probably a not too distant second, but I got more gaming out of RE5 than SWTOR.
What made me mention this at the top is a semi-new trend i'm seeing on Steam. Some games have a progression line for pre-orders, essentially urging people to buy the game early to unlock things.