RPG's have to be about doing activities to improve your character, just like in real life if you want to be good at say maths you spend a long time learning."
Role playing games are games that the player plays. If your mind cannot grasp the concept of game evolution then you're the one with the problem, not the rest of us. This is 2013, and we're not playing RPGs by rolling dice and taking notes. TESO will not be played on a commodor 64. Modern games are not limited to "databases". We don't see what goes on under the hood, and with the movement based combat system, all your numbers seem counter intuitive. Embrace change, or go back to pushing pencils. The majority of the TESO fans don't want WOW with Elderscrolls visuals.