The plot in Hjaalmarch is pretty easy to locate: southwest of Highgate Ruins, east-northeast of the abandoned shack. (This location sits right on top of a spawn spot for a Chaurus Reaper. Kill the bug to qualify for land ownership?)
I am less certain of the ones in the Pale and Falkreath.
The one in Falkreath would seem to be around lake Ilinalta, but I am having a hard time placing the mountain in the background. Maybe it is closer to the Twilight Sepulchral.
The one in the Pale seems like it might be located somewhat northeast of Loreius Farm. Someplace that is not 100% covered in snow, which leaves out most of the Pale.
Any better guesses?