What he said.
I am actualy in the same lane as you. I play these games to imerse myself away from reality. I dont need the game to turn into a game of keeping a bunch of bars neatly at some predifined point. Jugling needs is not my way of play.
That said, i dont mind the option, cause like me wanting to play one way, i know others like to play it the other way. Who am i to say no and deny them that.
So yes, add the option of a "hardcoe, need to sleep, eat and drink" gameplay, that way both parties are satisfied.
The casual gamers (me) can play the game their way, and the hardcoe RP'ers can play it their way.