Pfff whatever I think the lamest argument to use in a discussion is "I've been through stuff and you don't so you don't know anything about it". It's like the easiest way to say you are wrong and their right. However it doesn't really say anything I mean it doesn't even have to be supported by an argument. Because we just have to accept and believe that this person knows a lot more about the subject than you do? Which kind off kills all possibilities to discuss the topic.
Also people who think they have to look like models from an ad need a reality check and are plain stupid. I mean models look great in pictures, I would say some even flawless. However they didn't even looked like that when they took the picture?! It's all photoshopped, smooth skin, sometimes a smaller waist etc. So who cares? You are trying to live up to an image that the person who is actually in that image can't even live up too themselves so stop feeling sorry for yourself and just accept the fact that you are never going to be a super model just like the rest of 99,9999999% of the people who live on this earth...
Reality check test:
http://static.entertainmentwise.com/photos/Image/430kimkardphotoshop.jpg
If you are actually surprised by the difference in those two pictures you need a reality check as well...and if you have no idea who's in the picture you also need a reality check....
Lol I love madonna's pictures...DON'T CLICK IF YOU HAVE A WEAK STOMACH!
http://http://images.nymag.com/images/2/daily/2010/02/20100208_madonna_560x375.jpg
http://www.flixya.com/files-photo/1/0/0/1001blogs696081.jpg
http://www.demotivationalposters.org/image/demotivational-poster/1005/adobe-photoshop-madonna-you-got-old-demotivational-poster-1274410518.jpg
http://theblemish.com/images/2009/01/madonna-outtakes-31-750x1005.jpg