Hi i've tried to make a character that dose not kill but no matter what i need to because my body guard would fall behide so any idea's on how to make one

What?

Don't run ahead of your bodyguard

Simple.

Best bet, do a search, check on YouTube. This idea has been publicly done by a couple people. They've done videos showing how to accomplish it. I think there has also been posts on this forum about this.

illusion+ be a vampire w/ necromage perk before taking illusion perks. you should be able to subdue just about anything with calm spells. also go pickpocket so you can snag the essential keys.
training restoration that high is easy but time consuming. illusion: just spam muffle. for those you cant effect with illusion just sneak past with invisibility.

I want to bribe bandits to do my bidding.