can anyone help me with joining the DB, ive got the strat guide but it says to do the quest at the Lorieus farm where you help the jester get his wheel repaired, i spoke to the farm owner and convinced him to help repair the wheel, but now the jester just says he is going to wait there for his wheel to get repaired, and the farmer just says he has some chores to finish and he will get his tools and fix the wheel, ive waited over a month in game time and still the same stuff, ive been to the Darkbrotherhood sanctuary and cant get in because i dont knw the passcode, can anyone help, thanks.

Have you done the quest for the little kid in Solitude who has been trying to contact the dark brotherhood? I always assumed that was related, after you finish it you get a note saying you're being watched or something along those lines.

Wasn't it in Windhelm? Well yeah.. you do that, get the note from the courier (Travel to a different place, enter and exit a building), then you go to sleep. You wake up in