I've found that Alteration is the school I use most in Skyrim with my mages and the perks are great. If all you want to do is Paralyze though, you might be happy just getting the Staff of Paralysis. It won't involve taking perks to use it. I use the spell and give the staff to Argis and we have lots of fun. Just go to
and it can be yours. If you need to see exactly how to get it, here's a video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A6Phm1A5qQU
