im not sure i got the name right but its the dark elf student you meet when you goto the mages college. i married here and now i cant seem to get her to get rid of her damn bow and arrows. its just a wierd quirk since she is a mage but it annoys the hell out of me. im seriously thinking of murdering her and getting a new wife if i cant make her stop using the bow and arrows as her not follower equipment. anyone have any ideas?

Brelyna Maryon


If they're non standard items you should be able to use the trade dialogue to take them off her.

Alternatively dismiss her as a follower while in your house, and buy the items off her after she sets up a 'shop'

On PC you can also try console commands.


You can't remarry in Skyrim