I am guessing the only way to get her to stop would be some type of calm spell. Would that work? I picked up Lydia when I was level 50 so she is maxed out. Would any type of calm spell work on her? Is there some other way besides illusion spells to get her to stop? I generally don't spend any perks in illusion and the only two spell I care about are clairvoyance and muffle (for training).