Hm, anyone else uneasy leaving spouse home alone all the time with a bored housecarl or steward?

If you're married to camilla V. and you hire that Riverwood wood elf as a steward, all the more reason for worry since they were already involved.

Just say'n

Well, Tiberius plans to marry a woman and have a female steward. That way, if something happens between the two, he can just ask if he can watch next time.

A bit uneasy when you think about it, but my character is married to Farkas, so i assume he's used to female company from Jorrvaskr to the extent that he won't jump at the first occasion when he sees a skirt (or, uh, steel armor). Besides, my character adventures with male followers nearly as frequently as with female ones, so I guess it's a matter of mutual trust.

I am married to Camilla, and once when I got back from buying building supplies, I noticed Faendal leaving the house. He's not even my Steward...

did you ask lil Legolas what he was doing there

I had the same problem. Shortly after I followed him out in the wilds and gave him a friendly arrow acessory for the back of his head.

Lol. This topic made my day!

However, I have me a husky at my house to make sure that when I get married, there will be no horsing around from my future steward. I am making sure that Bran is being well trained to make sure everyone behaves.

He visited her in my breezehome and was muttering about how one day she would be his. I took him on some adventure and he was last seen dead along with a pile of cult followers to some daedric goddess... Camilla doesn't let men into the house now.

But on topic yeah you know. Most of my female character married female characters. If they "chose" to have some sort of interactions while I'm away thats fine. My female character takes mostly male followers and well it can get cold and lonely in the wilds... just saying so fair is fair I suppose. Housecarls are there to look after your home right? And that includes all within that home.

But Camilla and Faendal in the same house? thats asking for trouble. If Camilla gets pregant you better check the dates and the baby for pointed ears.

i "married" mjoll so there would be more people chillin in my hearthfire manor, she even came with some poor sap stuck in the friend zone (or maybe not, now that you've made a tread about it makes me wonder)