Actually someone made a mod to make Ancano marriable. But when I tried the mod, he killed everyone at the temple of Mara and left without marrying my character. Worst wedding day ever

For real!? Holy smokes, I have to try that mod and see how it turns out!
Yeah, but seriously, I and my high elf mage character are annoyed that all the Altmer guys in the game only seem interested in two things: Their research/studies, or hunting down Talos worshippers.
Even tried walking up to Ondolemar with an Amulet of Talos on in full view to see if I could get him to do something other than that constant pacing in front of the Jarl's throne room.. But no, just another "You are in the presence of a member of the Thalmor. Bask in it!"...Sigh... What's a girl got to do to get a "private interrogation" around here anyway?
I hope some eligable Altmer men show up in an expansion or DLC sometime.