And yes, this forum is dead compared to the Skyrim section. The second thread on the first page of this new vegas section was last replied to two hours ago. Compared to the skyrim section that has threads on the third page that have been replied to within the last fifteen minutes.
You created this thread last night and it was still on the first page with only eight replies. That's crazy.
It's been over three months, most move on. Or get tired of the same topics. I know, I know, someone will come in and tell me how this or that specific forum still gets a zillion posts a year or more later, but that's usually an exception. Tho I think the NV forums did slow down a month or so faster than most I've been to. Skyrim is anticipatory...people like to discuss the maybes.

To the OP ... hope you're enjoying the game so far. My general advice would be to explore a little/go off the beaten path (but not too far, at least early on), maybe raise Speech some so you have optional approaches. If you like to play with companions, remember they have personal quests and they're mostly worth taking the time to do, if only for the story immersion. Don't worry about whether you're doing things in the right order...the game's pretty forgiving about things like that ... unless you get a bug of course. Oh and remember, karma may not mean a lot in this game, but reputation does. Try not to anger a lot of factions before you've made up your mind who you want to support/not support, because it can often be hard to make up for it later. Have fun!