I just got rejected by a girl I have feelings for. I know all about those JAHO and JOAH on these forums, and we've spent time with each other and even called them dates. But I dove in, told her my feelings and put my heart on a platter again and all that jazz. But in the end, she can't accept me. One, she can't see me as anything more than a close friend and second, she has feelings for another common friend, who's also been recently been making a move.

It hurts. I'm usually not the kind of guy who cries, but I did. And a lot. Felt good to get it out of my system, but it still stings. All the emotional investment. My friends have been amazing in trying to help me out. It happened a few hours ago, and they've been sending me supportive texts and messages (it's 2 in the morning over here). I know that I'm not supposed to rush it, and I'll (probably) find 'the one', but I've been so unlucky in my 22 years of living. I've just been disappointed and oh-so-unlucky so many times in aspects of love.

I'm not even sure why I'm writing this here. I know my problem might seem minuscule and petty, but I just really need a place of anonymity to vent out.

You'll pull through, pal. There's surely someone for everyone out there; it's just a matter of time until you run into them. And when you do, sad days like this will only be a faint memory. It's not the end of the world by any means.

Welcome to the forums.

I wish I had some feel good answer for you, I don't.

I will say, you are doing better than me, you at least put yourself out there. I just can't be bothered and I am all the lonelier for it.

So, from my perspective, your doing all right. At least you try!

I wish you the best and hope the sting fades quickly.

Have a http://i.imgur.com/7cz60.jpg.

I'm sorry.

I know it hurts now but you did the right thing in opening up to her. It will get better and you will find someone who will say yes. Keep you head up and your eyes open.

By the Hist, we Argonians are cursed! My love Annekke is faithful to the ugly husband