Windows 7 is basically just vista repackaged as windows 7
This is true. That said, Vista SP1 had nothing particularly wrong with it and was only a market flop due to piss poor driver support on release due to changes to the HAL system.
its not user freindly is still full of rubbish, ive just started using windows 7 and im finding it a struggle, and i used to teach IT.
Considering how operationally (minus UAC) Windows 7 still behaves pretty much identical to XP on the user level, that's pretty sad. Maybe you should take some Computer 101 classes? Your old skills obviously don't cut it. BTW: UAC is a good thing.
What brand is your laptopl, plus check on the net about your laptop, my sister just bought an ASUS laptop and it ran terribly when she bought it home, had lots of problems with it, its also has windows 7 comes up with stupid errors that dont exist, when she tries to install stuff, it comes up with dialogue boxes that it shouldnt.
One thing i did was check the net for what rubbish the maker had installed as bloatware and uninstalled all the useless trash, one program was just to display the ASUS logo during startup, so its worth getting rid of stuff theyve installed that you'll never use. Plus it has so many processes running in the background, also worth getting the typing in run, typing in msconfig and removing rubbish in your startup menu.
I had same sort of problem once with an xp machine, but it was actually the HDD it was broken.
Bloatware is nothing new, so I don't see the issue

And i have 2 machines one xp one windows 7, im currently using my xp machine and barely use my windows 7 machine unless its to run hardcoe graphics games, also for the fact that windows 7 is supposed to be the new wonderful multimedia freindly plaform its really svcks at running dvds, i have a blueray drive and cant find a decent player, because everything on media player looks like trash, and vlc player is about the only player i can find to get quality even close to my xp machine, which is a million times better.
That's funny considering how Windows XP didn't even have the ability to play DVDs out of the box (didn't have the codec or DRM support). Considering as how default XP has virtually no codecs, I'd have to say you're either full of it or not using the same software at which point comparison would be stupid.